A dude from work wants to be my virtual friend on facebook.
As a married woman am i not allowed to add any males to my facebook?
That depends on what culture you belong to. In Western cultures that would be acceptable, and only regarded as cheating if the online relationship had a sexual or flirtatious nature.
What? No way is that cheating. I understand that things change when you marry, but guy friends are often better than girl friends, I think having both kind is good. If I got married, I wouldn't expect my husband to not be friends with other women. If you feel weird about this, ask your husband what he thinks... also, if you feel weird about it, maybe ask yourself why it doesn't feel right.
No you are, It's just having him as a friend it's not like you are dating him or secretly meeting him for (You-know-what) It's normal for people to add co-workers.
All facebook friends are virtual, are they not?
It is if you are having sex with him.
If you really want to know, ask your husband.
I seriously doubt he would consider that cheating. I would expect he wouldn't really care.
It's only cheating if you spend more time talking with him than youvirtual woman cheats do your husband, if you share intimate details about yourself/husband/marriage, if you confide in him but not your husband, if you flirt openly or discuss sexual things, and so on.
How this is viewed is really a matter of how a person sees this. You can't read peoples mind and how they think. The only one who could answer this is your husband by asking him if he is OK with you adding men to your Facebook. Don't have an easy answer for this. I do not tell my wife she can not have friends on the Internet, male or female because we are both secure in our relationship with each other.
no its not cheating....who says you cant have guy friends??????? especially someone whos your co worker
Only if you are not willing to tell your husband about him. If you can, then friend on!
no its not cheating.
but, whether you hide the friendship from your spouse or how you choose to interact with him online can determine whether it is disrespectful
nahhhh you can have friends why not??
Virtual Friend?
you are NOT ALLOWED?
By whom, your husband?
How can a man that doesn't trust you, love you?
I don't get it..but...this is what you can do....
Not saying I condone virtual woman cheatscheating, I don't...
but have your male friend create an account, as a female, and you can add him that way, and no one knows
Well if your not allowed
Maybe you should,nt do this ?
I don't remember that word in my vows ?
Has he any females on his facebook
Or is that ok for him to do it
Not allowed too!? Sounds like your husband is having some insecurity issues and control issues your a grown woman if you wanna add him just do it you're not cheating unless you two are flirting
ask your husband if he's okay with it !
Cheating is when you engage in a physical or emotional relationship at the expense of the one you have with your spouse.
How does adding a male co-worker as a f/b friend take away from your spouse?
Do you not know the difference between a friend and a lover???????
I think that is fine, but I would feel better if it was someone that my husband had met. Just so both him and I know that there are no boundaries being crossed and he doesnt question who that person is. That`s all. I don`t think it is a big deal if thats SERIOUSLY all that he is - a friend.
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